Your writing resonates with me, and is quite helpful. We are co-workers and friends at the very least. He said okay. Obviously, I was a bit disappointed, but moved on quickly, dated other guys etc. This causes you to have to make more of an effort, which isn't fair. NEVER mail it. Evan's info gave me the understanding that if a guy is interested in you, he will want to be with you, he will call when he says he will call, he will make sure he arranges time to spend with you.
He did say yes to your request, so go and enjoy this one time.
He is not messaging me now and I dont want to send a message first. We spent two days texting each other and before we actually spoke on the phone he asked me out for a drink the same week. Now he texted and check on me if I am single??! Not sure if my questions are relevant to the post?? Is he talking to someone new? So let me make it absolutely clear: They are no substitute for a real relationship.